This is a man who has been more of an uncle to me than my uncles, whose children are my siblings and cousins and friends.
And the situation right now is the sword on the throat kind.
So please - say some Tehillim, do a little learning, and daven that this man should see his grandchildren celebrate their weddings.
UPDATE: NAME CHANGE: His name is now Chanan Velvel SIMCHA ben Bryna